Yep! I'm totally mom enough!

I'm having a hard time with all the discussion surrounding the Time magazine cover.  I haven't read the article, and more than likely won't.  I have some thoughts on the topic of mommyhood and people's strong opinions though.

Before you spread your ideas on how to feed your baby, breast or bottle, or what room they sleep in etc... take into consideration a few things.  Things work differently for different people.  Not everyone is lucky enough to breastfeed successfully. Some pump exclusively. Some mommies just don't want to breastfeed, and want to spend time with their babies while bottle feeding.  Others can breastfeed easily for months or even years.  No matter how you feel on the topic, unless you are asked, be careful how you share your opinon. 

More power to you however you raise your child.  It's the hardest and most rewarding job in the world. More than likely... You're doing an awesome job.

I have tried all three feeding options and struggled through trying to make a decision.  However, my child is a beautiful, smart, and confident baby.  I have a hard time believing that how I got the milk/formula to her had anything to do with that.

Anywho.... I saw this today and I think these are some of the qualities that make you "Mom Enough".  These are the things that matter to me.

Forget about being the best mom in the world. You're the best mother to your children if you:

1. Lead by example.
2. Teach them to speak out on behalf of others.
3. Stop them from passing judgment on others.
4. Show respect to people of all ages, young and old.
5. Let your children learn from their mistakes.
6. Teach your children to play fair.
7. Tell the truth, always.
8. Watch your children for signs of stress, because sometimes actions speak louder than words.
9. Teach your children that blame isn't as important as finding solutions.
10. Introduce them to superheroes who don't wear capes and tights, but do their bit to save the world.
11. Are not afraid to teach your child that he's not always right.
12. Are not afraid to admit that you aren't always right, either.
13. Demonstrate kindness and generosity to others.
14. Teach them to say "Please" and "Thank you."
15. Say "I love you" often.
16. Make your point, without shouting or threats.
17. Teach them that the word is mightier than the punch.
18. Demonstrate respect to friends, families and strangers.
19. Inspire them to follow their dreams.
20. Encourage them to take on responsibilities.
21. Teach them the importance of education.
22. Help them discover the joy of reading.
23. Teach them that nutrition means great health.
24. Compliment them.
25. Can avoid making every decision for them.
26. Hold them to their promises.
27. Deliver on your promises to them.
28. Reward them after a good deed.
29. Teach them to respect their teachers.
30. Show a united front with their father on issues involving their wellbeing.
31. Don't project the personal fears that held you back onto them, as they find their own way in the world.
32. Encourage their creativity.
33. Pass along the message that we all make mistakes-and can be forgiven for them.
34. Remind them that nothing is more important than family and friends.
35. Don't allow them to become bullies.
36. Encourage them to learn from their losses.
37. Teach them to respect their bodies, and the bodies of others.
38. Teach them the joys of fruits and vegetables, as opposed to unhealthy fats, salts, and sugars.
39. Take them on walks, where you initiate long discussions.
40. Answer their questions, openly and honestly
41. Encourage their desire to learn more about the world.
42. Never talk down to them.
43. Give them chores.
44. Trust them to do the right thing.
45. Ask their opinion, and then listen to it.
46. Honor their trust.
47. Allow them to seek their own path.
48. Kiss and hug them often.
49. Love them at every age and stage.
50. Share wonderful experiences with them.